We have all had our hearts broken. Those who have parents who gave them unconditional love postponed the event for many years. Those who did not may find themselves reeling in a world that simply doesn’t seem safe. How do we make sense of our most precious feelings, brutally abused by those charge with their care? Each heartbreak demands a strategy for survival. One of the most pernicious strategies is armoring. Fabricating behaviors intended to protect us from the devastating effects of life. Anti social behavior is highly effective armoring because it is vast in variety and effectively repels risk by undermining vulnerable intimacy. Anything that finds the chink in your armor is your best chance to be free. Rebuilding the foundations of your trust in love unhindered is your most essential need. We have all had our hearts broken, but when we fly, some part of the spirit that leaked from those ancient shards is renewed. There is always another day, another swing, another chance to fully live. Shed the metal jacket piece by piece and we’ll see you in the sky. Joanthon